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Attitude 2 and 3 - There is no failure only feedback Cheap Authentic Jerseys , People are not their behaviours Self Help Articles | December 17, 2008
We have already considered how attitude 1. People can change anything. Now, we shall consider Attitude 2, There is no failure only feedback.


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Continuing this series of articles about five attitudes that will change your leadership style, business Cheap Jerseys Free Shipping , and life, here, we will consider: Now, we shall consider:


2. There is no failure, only feedback


3. People are NOT their behaviours


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Remember that the attitude you portray outwardly is a result of your inner state. You might like to think of your inner state as a feeling. Most often, our state is described by a 'feeling' word: angry, happiness, joyful, accepted Cheap Jerseys China , guilty, peaceful for example.


If you genuinely believe that you are focusing on your target and you align yourself correctly, and yet you push the ball, or pull the ball away from the line of target. What do you do? Berate yourself for slicing or hooking? Bad move! Welcome the opportunity to learn what it was that you did, because there is going to come a shot where you want to hook it Cheap Jerseys , or slice it around a tree? E cellent!


Learn from it - take joy in learning something.


If it's a consistent problem for you... then you can choose, go get some instruction from a good pro to improve your technique, learn how to re-align yourself to compensate (not so good but Gary Player had a peculiar swing to compensate for his clubs), or - very rarely - get your clubs fixed.


If per chance you go to a pro who immediately tells you that you need a new set of clubs, then go elsewhere - it may be true (you can always go back later) but an expensive driver does not a golfer make.


Think back to our car driving analogy - you've seen someone driving a Ferrari badly and someone else driving a Toyota very well? Of course it's always worth checking your clubs for dints and dents Wholesale Authentic Soccer Jerseys , even Toyota's break down (yeah but less often than Ferraris!) Of course anyone from that esteemed motor company that would like to prove the reliability of their vehicles on a personal level - I'm very happy to accept the challenge.


People are not their behaviours


There are some fundamental needs that drive our attitudinal behaviours. Here I'd like to pick up on one aspect of motivation that can radically change behaviour. There are some real big changes in someone's life that result in a major shift in mindset and I'll briefly discuss them here, then move onto the more commonly experienced change that changes behaviours.


Two big needs for human beings are the need for survival and the need for security. When an individual's survival is at stake - their behaviour will change dramatically if necessary to ensure survival. The most compelling stories of survival are of women finding themselves able to lift trucks off their run-over child. Threaten our survival and our fear kicks into play. fear - unlike anger - is an emotion and state that has a perfectly good chemical system working in our body to rely on. This does not mean irrational fear - fear that is unnecessary such as phobias - but fear that threatens survival. This we need to keep - just in case.


The second big need that can cause massive behaviour change is security. If our security is threatened (extrapolate to survival) most people will fight to defend it. War is the classic example of this - when your homeland is invaded, your prior acceptance of the invader is quickly dispelled and many people are prepared to kill if necessary to protect their security. For those of you who might like to take me to task on this, I can be absolutely certain that your own security has never been threatened.


Human beings share a need to belong. We all have a desire to feel accepted and of worth to our society (as in our social circle extending for many to society at large.) From early childhood, we have an in-built need for acceptance and connection with other humans - we are social animals. We want love and caring from our parents Wholesale Soccer Jerseys , our friends, our family. We crave 'fitting-in' at school or at work with our peer group.


Without such acceptance and connection in our group - we will seek it elsewhere. For a few, they seek that acceptance alone - might seem odd to some of you, but on your own, your mind creates its own group - and sometimes even they don't accept you. For others Wholesale Jerseys From China , they will seek acceptance in other groups - well like joining a golf club for instance - here you meet and socialise and play with people who share something in common with you... they play golf. If you take a quick tour of your closest friends and associates you'll find there's even more in common. This is why people join gangs - especially those who find little or no acceptance in their families. Keeping in the gang becomes increasingly important - and gangs - especially gangs of youths earn themselves a bad reputation in greater society because they consistently cross the values of that greater society - they pitch themselves against it to form a stronger bonding between the members. It doesn't excuse bad behaviour, but it partially explains it. So, a little aside, if you have kids or family members who're members of a notorious gang - you can do something about it - and I don't mean tell them! I mean show them you care and accept them for who they are and their values. I digress, but some of these snippets have changed peoples lives dramatically.


Our need to belong is profound. Our understanding of this is important in developing our maturity as a person. You have your own needs for acceptance and connection. This includes your work and your golf. Not to be taken lightly Wholesale Jerseys China , your needs are part of the reason for playing golf at all. In two article. Wholesale Jerseys Wholesale Custom NHL Jerseys Wholesale Custom College Jerseys Cheap NHL Hockey Jerseys Cheap New Soccer Jerseys Wholesale Jerseys From China Wholesale Jerseys From China Wholesale MLB Jerseys Wholesale College Jerseys Wholesale Authentic Soccer Jerseys
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